You’re in a relationship with an amazing guy, and it seems like you’ve finally found “the one.” The love is real, and things are going great…until suddenly, he starts to pull away.

You feel yourself start to panic. You’re probably wondering what you’ve done wrong and what you can do to make him stay…

At this stage, you need to take a step back and stop panicking. When a man pulls away, it’s so important to calm yourself and be a high-value woman, which admittedly can be difficult to do when you feel like he’s slipping away.

But what exactly does it really mean to be a high-value woman?

Essentially, being a high-value woman when a guy pulls away is all about maintaining your dignity and self-respect. When he pulls away give him space and time to come back to the relationship on his own.

This isn’t about playing games or manipulating your partner. It’s about knowing your values and boundaries and sticking to them.

You’ve got to be confident in yourself, know your worth and not compromise on your principles.

It’s not easy to stay a high-value woman when a guy decides he wants space for whatever reason (trust me, I know first hand)– it’s like you’re stuck in an emotional limbo, and you have no clue what to do.

But there are some steps you can take to help you maintain your sanity, and honestly, in the end, if he’s the right one for you, your relationship will bounce back and be healthier and stronger….

Right, let’s take a look at what you can do to maintain your high value when he pulls away, shall we! 

How to be a high value woman when he pulls away

1. Don’t take it personally

It can be easy to take his behaviour personally and think that you’re the cause of it.

But try not to let your emotions get the better of you – instead, step back and look at the situation objectively.

He may need some time on his own for any number of reasons, which isn’t necessarily a reflection of you or your relationship (and it has nothing to do with your worth as a person).

For example, if he starts to pull away after a fight or argument, don’t assume that it means he doesn’t care about you anymore – this could just be his way of cooling off before getting back to the conversation.

So, try and take it in stride instead of jumping to conclusions.

2. Be aware of your feelings and thoughts

It’s natural to feel anxious or upset when all of a sudden, you find the person you’re with begins to pull away, especially if you care about him deeply. 

But acting impulsively can often make things worse.

Instead, take some time for yourself and reflect. What’s truly causing your distress? 

Is it a genuine concern for your relationship, or is it caused by past experiences that may not be relevant now?

3. Focus on your own life

Alright, so you’ve processed your emotions, and now it’s time to focus on you! 

Do things that make you happy. Spend time with friends & family who have your back, and invest in your personal growth through classes or workshops that spark your interest. 

Don’t forget about your physical well-being, too – regular exercise and proper nutrition will benefit you mentally and emotionally. 

4. Don’t chase him when he pulls away

It’s easy to become needy and clingy, sending him text messages or calling him constantly to try and get his attention.

You might feel like you need to prove yourself to him or constantly remind him why he should stay with you. 

This can make you feel like less than the confident and strong woman you normally are, leaving you feeling drained and defeated.

You’ll want to do everything in your power to bring him back.

The thing is, chasing after him will only send the message that he can treat you poorly without consequence. 

Instead of allowing yourself to be strung along by someone who isn’t fully committed, focus on building your own sense of self-worth and confidence.

High-value women understand their own worth and won’t settle for anything less than respect and love. 

Also, never let anyone play games with your heart. You need to know when it’s time to walk away from people that aren’t serious about giving love just as much as they take it. 

5. Don’t keep checking his social media profiles

Avoid constantly checking his social media profiles. That may actually backfire and cause more stress and anxiety for you both. 

Actually, it could even make him think you’re stalking him!

Not checking his social media repeatedly can help you establish healthy boundaries and give him space to work through whatever he’s facing. 

6. Control your emotions and reactions

When a guy starts to withdraw from a relationship, it can really take a toll, and it’s not always easy to handle.

Of course, you just want things to go back to how they but make sure you don’t lash out or let your emotions get the best of you. It’ll only make things worse 

If you want to chat with him about his behaviour, try to keep it cool and avoid coming across like you’re blaming him for anything.

It’ll make for a much better conversation and help him see your perspective.

7. Avoid sharing the situation on social media

Sharing the ins and outs of your relationship on social media can hurt both you and your partner. 

It leads to unwanted attention from outsiders and can get you opinions that may only complicate things further.

Why not try speaking with a bff over coffee or lunch instead? You can get advice from someone you know and keep your privacy intact.

Trust that you will be okay

When it comes to relationships, there’ll always be moments when things get tough. 

It’s totally normal for a guy sometimes to pull away, but it can leave you feeling anxious and uncertain. 

But the thing is, you’ve got to believe that things will work out as they’re meant to (even if it doesn’t seem like it at the moment).  

You are a high-value woman, Trust that if this relationship ain’t meant to be, there’s someone even better suited for you out there. 

So take a deep breath, maybe go for a walk or make a cuppa tea, and focus on taking care of yourself first.